Mixed Signals

When I was in high school, a friend of mine had a crush on someone. One time, the guy approached her and asked if she could help him with an assignment and given that she likes him, she did. "This is it, " she thought. "We're finally going to get to know each other. And who knows, right?”
But as Sarah Kay said, " Life will hit you hard in the face, wait for you to get back up so it can hit you in the stomach." Life did hit her, pretty hard I would say. Why? It turned out that the guy was asking help not for him but for HIS crush. 
Yup, his crush! He had a crush on someone else and he was trying to impress her. Ouch, I know. So what's the moral lesson here? Never trust your crush lol! :D 
Seriously though, sometimes we get too caught up trying to understand the meaning of every action made by someone we adore that we miss the message. We live each day in a cloud of daydream. A dream that one day, he/she will realize that the two of you are a match made in heaven. And when that doesn't happen, we end up hurt and disappointed.
So here's the real moral lesson: never expect anything and just enjoy the moment. Sabi nga nila 'wag daw assuming. Just because they asked for help doesn't mean crush ka din. Minsan kailangan lang talaga nila ng tulong so ibigay mo. Hindi ba masaya na naging instrument ka ng happiness ng iba? Oo, hindi ka kasama sa happiness na iyon pero ok na din. Hindi ba masaya ka pag masaya si crush? So ok lang yan! Pasasaan din ba at dadating din ang para sa'yo!
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